Agreed, a long passionate joust between the sheets, in which both the partners take their time to warm up to the act, is the ideal way of making love. But there are times when a guy just feels the urge to take his woman and ravage her. Kissing, cuddling, pleasuring her orally can wait for some other time, a quicky is but the quintessential “slam bam; thank you Ma’am” in action.
Of course, quite a few women admit enjoying quickies as well. The fast and the furious banging, sometimes done while both partners remain fully clothed can be very arousing. But it’s important to make the quickie pleasurable for both partners, something you being the man have to ensure. She shouldn’t feel as if she has been used like a whore, and the only satisfaction she got from the act was the $100 note that you stuck in her blouse after the act.
So take care of the following things to make the Quickie a memorable experience for your partner:
Foreplay all day long : While a quickie usually doesn’t last longer than 5-10 minutes of intense pounding, you can still make it very exciting for her. If you make love to her mind all day long, she will be mentally so stimulated, that she won’t feel the need to be physically aroused for the act. So, compliment her looks, the way she smells, how you love the way she has done her hair and how you can barely keep your hands off her. If you make her feel how madly you desire her all the time, she will actually be glad to bend over and let you have your way with her.
Preparing her sexually : Women are highly imaginative beings. And their entire bodies are sexually receptive. So you can get them charged up without coming anywhere close to them. If you have a quickie in mind and want to get your partner excited about it, prepare her for what you are about to do. Make a small sexual comment like “I would love to see what you are wearing underneath that sexy dress” or “What color panties are you wearing” will be enough to get her aroused.
Kiss her : No you can’t avoid the kiss. Lips are one of most erogenous zones of a woman’s body and there is nothing like a slow wet kiss to heat her up. For added effect lovingly fondle her breast. The idea is to make her swoon and melt in your arms. When you start feeling your way through her undergarments, tell her how incredibly sexy she’s looking and how hot she makes you feel.
Make her wet : Before you penetrate, you gave to make sure that she is lubricating sufficiently to enjoy the experience. So lovingly stroke her nether regions to get the juices flowing. For a better effect you can even use the head of your penis against her vagina.
Don’t create a soothing atmosphere : There’s no point in creating a comfortable soothing atmosphere if you have a quickie in mind. So no soft music, no bottles of wine and rose petals sprinkled on the bed. That will in fact kill the mood. The whole point of a quickie is to be fast, furious and intense.