“When my girlfriend gave me a blow job, we both enjoyed it, a serious fun with lots of sensations attached to it.”
She loves to take it in her mouth and he loves to give it in. It’s all about give and take, its all about having fun and frolic, its all about those pleasurable moments during fellatio. In simple terms, fellatio is a type of oral sex in which there is a contact between mouth and the penis. In fellatio, the head and shaft of the penis are licked, kissed and sucked. The mucous membrane inside the mouth is similar to the lining of the vagina. The moist slippery feel of the mouth and tongue on the penis can be of extreme pleasure.
Fellatio can be incorporated as part of a couple's foreplay, meant to heighten the sexual arousal, or it can be the main activity, meant to bring the man to orgasm. It is common among both heterosexual and homosexual couples, but not everyone is willing to perform it. Whether you use the technical term fellatio or call it a blow job, going down on a man, or giving him head, performing fellatio is an act that requires a lot of trust and a little bit of knowledge.
A couple of surveys done on fellatio suggest that guys love it so much they don’t care about technique. In reality there is a lot of variation in fellatio skills, and knowing how to read your partner, what to do to him, and when to do it, can make all the difference.
Even if a couple includes fellatio in their sexual relationship, anxieties about performing fellatio on a man may still exist. The person performing fellatio may have concerns that the partner's penis may be too large for her or his mouth or that it may cause gagging. Another common worry is that the man will urinate during fellatio, or if ejaculation occurs, that the taste or feel of semen in the mouth will be unpleasant.
Although, an erect penis may be too large to fit entirely in one's mouth, some form of mouth contact can usually be made on the penis regardless of the size. How deep a penis penetrates in the mouth can be controlled by either the man or his partner by placing the hand around the shaft of the penis. This technique allows the hand to act as a stopper, thereby reducing the risk of gagging due to deep penetration. A thick penis that may stretch the lips and mouth can be licked up and down the shaft and around the glands without trying to take the penis fully into the mouth.
With regard to urination during fellatio, it is extremely unlikely that any man is going to urinate in his partner's mouth by accident. Men cannot ejaculate and urinate at the same time. During ejaculation there is a reflex action that contracts a muscle in the neck of the bladder which leads to the penis preventing the flow of urine.
If a person giving fellatio is hesitant to have the man ejaculate into her or his mouth, the partner can signal when he is about to ejaculate. For some, the slightly salty and chlorine-like taste of semen can create an unpleasant taste; others may find this as a part of the erotic experience of lovemaking.
Risks associated with Fellatio
While the risk of transmitting HIV through fellatio is unknown, it is suspected to be rare. Any kind of direct contact with body fluids of a person infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, poses a risk of infection. The risk from most of these types of infection, however, is generally considered far lower than that associated with vaginal or anal sex.
If any of the performing partners have wounds on their genitals or in their mouth can increase the risk of transmission of any disease. These wounds, even when they are microscopic, increase the chances of STDs. Because of this, some medical professionals advise the use of condoms when performing or receiving fellatio with a partner whose STD status is unknown. Flavored condoms may be used for this purpose.
Any form of sex is enjoyable as long as it has no risks attached. So safety should be the first priority.